I have started packing up my room, and loading up my suitcase. My life is organised across two whiteboards. I’m going to a house party later, and I intend to dance for the entire night. Only thirteen days until I fly out.
Month: November 2013
Why the U.S.?
- I’m a citizen by birth. Mum is a US citizen, so I am entitled to inherit citizenship from her.
- The United States is part of my identity, and I feel the desire to cultivate it by spending a long time there.
- I’m in my twenties, young, healthy, unattached, have few responsibilities in life. Now is the perfect time to travel and go on an adventure.
- I have loving family there, who can help support me initially (and in times of need).
- I want a clean break, a fresh start, a chance to create a new life for myself. It’s not that Australia is a terrible place, it’s just that I’ve been going through the motions here. My life isn’t challenging me enough right now.
I get nods of understanding and encouragement when I tell people any of my reasons. I think it’s a well known narrative: twenty-somethings exploring the world, and never coming home.
Things I will take to North America
- Motorcycle gear
- Martial arts gear and certificates
- Selected favourite clothes
- Selected favourite books
- Tech
- Cash and Documents
- Good memories
- Big dreams
Things I will leave behind in Australia
- My motorcycle
- My car
- Most of my books
- Most of my clothes
- All my furniture
- All my friends
- Ex-girlfriends
- Skeletons
- Bad Decisions
Things that have changed since I became an American citizen
‘Life isn’t about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself.’ – George Bernard Shaw
- I’ve become competitive at sports
- I like winning, not losing
- I’ve become determined to get things done
- I do what I want, and I get what I earn, on my own terms
- I want to do things no one else is doing
- I like challenges of epic proportion
- I want a big truck, and a sports car
- I won’t have made it until I’m the Vice President of a company, or in the White House
- I’ve realised how small-scale Australia is (just watch the local news to see this one)
- I’ve come to appreciate aspects of American culture, history and politics
- I like hip hop, and the ‘started from the bottom now we’re here’ narrative
- I respect and appreciate firearm discipline
- I stopped using private health insurance
Things to do when I arrive in the U.S.
- Get a job/work
- Open a bank account
- Get a phone
- Buy a car
- Start following sports teams (MLB, NBA, NFL)
- Find a martial arts dojo
- Find a place to play indoor soccer
- Learn to shoot firearms
- Vegas (2 days, no sleep)
- Visit the East Coast (for a weekend per city)
- Create a film or TV show
- Ball so hard
- Fix America’s problems